A well-planned wedding weekend timeline helps out-of-town guests feel welcomed and informed about all the festivities.
Managing multiple events across several days requires careful coordination to ensure guests can attend key celebrations while also having time to rest and explore.
This guide outlines how to create an organized schedule that keeps everyone in the loop and makes the most of your wedding weekend.
Thursday – Early Arrivals
Consider organizing an informal welcome dinner or cocktail hour for guests arriving early.
- Afternoon: Guest check-ins begin
- 6:00 PM: Optional casual gathering at hotel bar or local restaurant
- 8:00 PM: Free evening for rest and recovery from travel
Friday – Welcome Day
The official start of wedding festivities typically begins on Friday.
- 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM: Free time for guests to explore local attractions
- 3:00 PM – 5:00 PM: Wedding rehearsal (wedding party only)
- 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM: Welcome dinner or rehearsal dinner
Saturday – Wedding Day
The main event requires precise timing to keep everything running smoothly.
- 12:00 PM: Hair and makeup begins (bridal party)
- 3:00 PM: Guest shuttle service begins from hotel
- 4:00 PM: Ceremony begins
- 4:45 PM: Cocktail hour
- 6:00 PM: Reception dinner and dancing
- 11:00 PM: Late-night snacks and final shuttle service
Sunday – Farewell Gathering
- 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM: Farewell brunch
- 12:00 PM: Standard hotel checkout time
Tips for Timeline Communication
- Create a wedding website with all event details and timing
- Include printed schedules in welcome bags
- Send digital calendar invites for main events
- List transportation schedules clearly
- Mark which events are optional vs. required
Transportation Planning
Book shuttle services between venues with 15-minute buffer times for loading and traffic.
Event | Transportation Need |
---|---|
Welcome Dinner | Optional shuttle service |
Wedding Ceremony/Reception | Required shuttle service |
Sunday Brunch | Self-transport (walking distance) |
Local Activity Suggestions
Provide guests with free-time options during the weekend.
- Local attractions and landmarks
- Shopping districts
- Restaurant recommendations
- Spa services at the hotel
- Group activities (golf, wine tasting)
Making Your Timeline Work
Share the final timeline with all vendors and the wedding party at least two weeks before the event.
Keep a master schedule with contact information for all service providers.
Designate a wedding coordinator or family member to manage timeline execution during the weekend.
Weather Contingency Plans
Always have backup plans ready for outdoor elements of your wedding weekend.
- Indoor alternatives for each venue
- Tent rental on standby
- Weather monitoring schedule
- Communication plan for last-minute changes
Guest Accommodation Management
Ensure smooth logistics for guest stays throughout the weekend.
- Room block management
- Early check-in arrangements
- Late checkout options
- Welcome bag distribution schedule
Special Dietary Considerations
Plan ahead for various dietary needs across multiple events.
- Collect dietary restrictions in advance
- Coordinate with caterers for all events
- Label food options clearly
- Have backup options available
Emergency Contact System
Create a clear chain of communication for any issues that arise.
- Designated point person for each event
- Vendor emergency contacts list
- Medical facility information
- Backup vendor options
Creating Lasting Wedding Memories
A well-organized wedding weekend allows everyone to focus on celebrating rather than logistics.
- Share timeline updates promptly
- Build in flexibility for unexpected moments
- Keep communication channels open
- Trust your planning team
- Remember to enjoy your special weekend
FAQs
- How far in advance should I send out wedding weekend timeline information to out-of-town guests?
Send the timeline 6-8 weeks before the wedding, along with the invitations. Include a detailed itinerary in the welcome bags as well. - What events should be included in a wedding weekend timeline for out-of-town guests?
Include arrival times, welcome dinner/cocktail hour, rehearsal dinner (if they’re invited), ceremony time, reception details, farewell brunch, and any planned group activities or sightseeing tours. - Should I include local transportation information in the timeline?
Yes, provide details about airport transfers, shuttle services between hotels and venues, parking information, and recommended local transportation options. - How detailed should the timeline be for pre-wedding events?
Include start and end times, locations with addresses, dress codes, and whether meals will be provided. For optional activities, note if reservations are required. - Should I include local attractions and dining recommendations in the timeline?
Yes, provide a curated list of nearby restaurants, attractions, and activities for guests’ free time, including approximate travel times from the hotel. - What accommodation information should be included with the timeline?
List check-in/check-out times, hotel addresses, booking deadlines, room block codes, and contact information for the hotel concierge. - How should I handle multiple events with different guest lists?
Clearly mark which events are open to all guests and which are by invitation only. Consider creating separate timelines for different guest groups. - What’s the best way to communicate timeline changes to out-of-town guests?
Create a wedding website for live updates, use a group messaging system, or designate a point person to communicate changes. Consider creating a digital version of the timeline that can be easily updated. - Should I include contact information for key wedding personnel?
Yes, provide contact details for the wedding coordinator, designated family member, or friend who can assist guests with questions or emergencies during the wedding weekend. - How should I format the timeline for maximum clarity?
Use clear headings, bullet points, and chronological order. Include day, date, and time for each event. Consider using different colors or symbols to differentiate between mandatory and optional events.